When Inches and Feet Feel Like Miles

Image of the question "What's the percentage of Americans who feel lonely?" the options for the answers are A) 30%, B) 40% and C) 50%.

The correct answer is C, as it comes the closest to the actual percentage of Americans reporting that they feel lonely: 47%. In other words, nearly one of every two Americans feel psychologically if not physically isolated, too. At work, job insecurity and working-from-home (WFH) can be contributors. When I mentioned to HR consultant Caroline Stokes in a previous interview the estimate is that 25% of all bosses qualify as bullies, Stokes thought that percentage was too low. Add to that mix difficult bosses, then a worker’s day can seem even longer. When loneliness induces sadness (which it typically does), a sense of helplessness and hopelessness can settle in, depriving a person of the energy to get things done and also interact with others. A good manager might intervene to correct that vicious cycle, but not a bully boss. If you’re in an office setting, your desk may be near other colleagues but do you feel connected to them? My favorite statistic of late is that there are only 18 inches separating the head and the heart, but, oh-what-a-distance that can prove to be!

Released today: episode #70 of my podcast series “Dan Hill’s EQ Spotlight,” featuring Eileen McDargh discussing Burnout to Breakthrough: Building Resilience to Refuel, Recharge, and Reclaim What Matters. Click here to get to the new episode.

An image of Author Eileen McDorgh and and image of her new book "Burnout to Breakthrough: Building Resilience to Refuel, Recharge, and Reclaim What Matters" for Dan Hill's EQ Spotlight podcast episode 70 titled "Cultivating Resilience in Upside-Down Times"

Eileen McDargh is the CEO (Chief Energy Officer) at the Resiliency Group. In 2019, Global Gurus International ranked her first among the World’s Top 30 Communication Professionals. She’s also been elected into the CPAE Speaker Hall of Fame, placing her among the top 3% of speakers in America.

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Dan Hill, PhD, is the president of Sensory Logic, Inc. His latest books, available on Amazon are Emotionomics 2.0: The Emotional Dynamics Underlying Key Business Goals and Blah, Blah, Blah: A Snarky Guide to Office Lingo.